Mark Peros: Diary of a Fencer

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Las VEGAS!!!







Really wanted to write this sooner, but after a very annoying 6 hour delayed flight in Denver I didn't arrive back to Toronto until 4am Tuesday morning.... then sleeping-in and having a busy day yesterday there was no way I could get this posting before this morning. Las Vegas, the last of the World Cup Season....definitely a great place to hold this event. Unfortunately for me, it was probably one of the worst tournaments I can remember. Nothing at all went right. How can I explain it....? Think "overload", or going "stale" we say in the sporting world which may best describe it. Since August of last year I have been eating, sleeping and breathing fencing. Since January its been a traveling schedule that, as you have read, could make Jacques Cousteau jealous. With all that, and the hours daily I've been putting in at training, it just felt like I had hit a wall. I had nothing to give. Even though my physical, technical and tactics at this point are at they're peak my mind felt like a jelly doughnut had been stomped on. I couldn't focus, I couldn't think straight and honestly I wasn't having a good time. We call this "burn out". Thank goodness there wasn't a team event this time (which is my main concentration at this point)....so it was decided at dinner on the Sunday night that the best thing for me right now is to take two weeks off. Even though I don't want to, but as it goes sometimes you need to take one step back to go two steps forwards. To forget about fencing. To clear my head and think about friends, work and other sports.....maybe throw in a party and some dangerous tricks....so that when I return I'm hungry for it. This is probably the most common issue in sport. Keeping a tight mental game throughout an entire season, tournament after tournament, its feels like being a deer caught in head-lights, you don't know where to turn. So with that all said, your help is needed too. If I'm going to forget about fencing for two weeks, you have to too!! If you see me out at the bar, walking down the street or flying a kite lets chat about, uhmmmmm, something else....the weather, Wimbledon or even Paris Hilton (yes, I would stoop that low)....just remember its all for a good cause!!
Vegas on the other hand, is unlike any other city I've been to. The lights, the casino's, the people...its like a glorified Walt Disney World for adults. Non stop betting, drinking, dinner party's and shows, these people love the life money whether they have it or not!! I must admit I gave my hand to the Roulette table and a little BlackJack just to taste the addiction.....fun it was there is no doubt about it, but didn't win enough to make me want more. Saturday night a couple of us went to see the Celine Dion show at Caesar's Palace. Thanks to Michel's wife, who is family friends with Rene Charles (Celine's husband) made a last minute phone call and managed to score some 6th row tickets. I mean I'm really not a fan of her music (even though she is Canadian) but the show was spectacular. Vegas knows how to do it right...I was in awe the entire time!!!
Sorry, but only three pic's this trip. With such a poor showing I wasn't really in the mood to walk around with a camera around my neck. Except for the last day, when I was chilling at the pool side catching some rays, man that desert sun is hot. Then on the way to the airport I noticed a roller coaster weaving its way through the downtown strip which deserved a quick snap-shot.....but that was it, three shots for good luck!!
As the summer time is in full force now there is a lot to keep me busy. Haven't been able to get the MG out yet, so I think I'll wax it up and take it for a cruise this week. Canada day long weekend too, think I'll head up north for some real Canadian R&R.....sun, a dock and some cold pop's!!! What else does a fencer need?
Talk to you soon.









Saturday, June 09, 2007

A Family Affair!

























































































































After nearly a month of travelling I finally made it back to Canada. The first of three back-to-back-to-back tournaments started out in Warsaw, Poland. This was just a regular World Cup so there was no team event but it was still vital for those who are trying to qualify individually. I went 4 and 2 in my pool round beating out some important figures so I was pretty pumped, but then lost to Italy's Tohni Terenzi (2004 Italian Olympic Team member) 15-13 in a grueling and pressured match. It was probably the best 15 touch match I've ever fenced as the crowd grew by every point. I was reading him like a book in the second half of the match but then failed to pull it out at 13-13. I definitely gained some respect. Only three of us decided to travel to Warsaw that weekend, Nicolas, Philippe and myself. The others were going to be joining us in Spain a week later. We were there for only a few days, so there wasn't a lot of time to do any sightseeing. Not to worry though, I've been there before and done the tourist thing so it didn't bother me. On the Sunday night, Philippe and I did make it out to a discoteque and managed to loosen up with a night of cuttin' rug!!! Good times!
Madrid was next on the list. We've been there a handful of times, always staying in the same apartments and shopping at the same grocery stores. We had ten days scheduled in so I was actually looking forward to the stay...sun, eye candy and good food, what else does a guy need?
I managed to pick up a new speedo on the first day but didn't get one chance to wear since it rained for the next 7 days straight. What was up with that? May is supposed to be the best month to visit Spain, weather wise, but it sure didn't seem like it. So the next best thing happened....we fell into the habit of eating, napping and watching German MTV. Well, I shouldn't exaggerate....we managed to get some training in too with a couple of hours a day. That added a special certain dynamic to our routine! I must admit, my camera didn't come out once while I was there because who wants to see a picture of my hotel room?!! The good thing was that we were well rested for fencing come Friday morning. This Madrid tournament is probably the biggest tournament of the year. With 160 fencers its known as being harder than any World Championships or any Olympics. I did a descent 3 and 3 in the pools, which I thought was good enough to pass through to the next day's rounds, but with the amount of fencers they cut after the first round now-a-days it was not going to happen. Pretty shocking, eh? Disappointed yes, but my confidence was still very high from the week before and especially with how I'm preparing on the strip and the points I'm getting I didn't feel too bad. Still, my focus was on the team event. Once again, we kept our team ranking after the day was over and I was stronger then ever.
Lastly, our trip as a team took us to Padova, Italy. A small industrial and University town about 30 miles outside of Venice. Actually, Padova was not that exciting of a town but it was my first time to Italy so it didn't really matter. We took one day off before the competition and spent a day in Venice. Exactly like you see on TV or the movies (James Bond) the city of Venice is a pure masterpiece. The architecture, the layout and just so picturesque. The photo's you see above don't at all do it justice. The Square of St. Marks, the oh so friendly pigeons and the classic gondolas winding through the maze of buildings and hanging laundry! The only downside was the influx of tourists. Meeting a local was simply impossible. I guess it was to do with the time of year but I hope it doesn't ruin the city. On to fencing. Its more than clear to me now, and my fellow fencers that I perform so much better in the team event. And the strange thing is, is that I can't explain why? Both in Madrid and Padova I made over half of our total points for every match all my by myself. I guess when it comes down to it, I'm just a team player plain and simple. Unfortunately, in our third match of the day I had to pull out with a broken toe. I tried to continue, but by three o'clock in the afternoon I could no longer stand on it.
Funny, over a three week period (and hardly doing anything except for fencing, eating, sleeping and watching music videos) I received a broken tooth (by a girl), a broken toe, a torn Lat's Dorsey muscle, a pulled tricept muscle and shortage of tanning time....what's going on here?
Anyways, on to what I really want to tell you about. Monday morning I jumped on train heading to Croatia, land of my roots. My dad was meeting me later that day at the train station in Zagreb. We were spending the week with his family, something I've never done. I had to change trains in a small boarder town between Italy and Austria called Villach. A tiny little place...paradise rather, that is tucked in between mountains and forests......right out of The Sound of Music...beautiful! I can see why taking the train is so popular in Europe, because you just can't get the picturesque views any other way. This was going to be great! Zagreb is the biggest city in Croatia with a population of about 1 million. You can see some classic Austro-Hungarian architecture here with the Church of St. Mark. Just look at the tiled roof! The biggest excitement for me though was meeting the family. And exciting it was. My first meeting was with Magda, my dads cousin and her husband, Milan. I have to tell you that the moment I met her and she wrapping her arms around me and kissed me, it triggered something that I haven't felt in a long time. The memory of my grandparents who I have not seen in over 15 years. It felt like I was seeing them again. I didn't want to say but I could have broken into tears right then but I tried my hardest and kept it in. The most important day I think was when we took a train out to Zagorje, a village about 20 miles outside of Zagreb. This was the village of the Peros' and where my dad was born. Beautiful countryside, rolling hills of corn and grapevines (what the region is known for) and just simple people living simple lives. That's my dad there speaking with the daughter of one of his cousins. You can see here the tombstone of my dad's Grandfather and his second wife who he married at 55 and she being 38 years his younger. Together they had 14 children. Along with those, he had another 14 children with his first wife...making that a grand total of 28 children, so you can imagine how many family members that makes right now!! For people I've never seen before and never even heard of I became like a son to everyone. I could have sworn I had inherited 5 more mothers who were all worried about me....if I was eating enough, sleeping enough, even wanting to clean the dirt from my shirt and shoes. By far the most exciting part was when we took a trip up to the tiny old house where my dad was born. Classic wooden doors of the house that led into the single room....we even found the old bed-frame and headboard that he was born in. Amazing to think, eh! I don't think in one entire day have I ever eaten that much food and drunk that much wine and brandy. Each house we went into had another feast ready, how do they do it? I loved it there. So unfortunately the day had to come to an end. Even though everyone wanted us stay the night, we had other obligations the next day. So back on the train again and to the city we went.
You know, as much as I love the city life, more and more I am falling for the countryside. Maybe its because of situations like this, or the fact that I'm just growing up and discovering more about life. Everyone has their own fancies, maybe mine is to be on a farm.
Anyways, back in TO now, nursing my wounds and having a lazy weekend. Start training again on Monday and getting ready for Las Vegas in 2 weeks, our last major competition before the Pam-Am Championships. Will I be getting married in Vegas you're asking? Well I don't know, its not in the plans but you never know...!!!!
Talk to you then. Later!